Men and dating in forties
plus I tried my best not to influence any of the responses.You also make an excellent point that didn't surface ... Any man would LOVE to have a woman like you (a WORK HORSE)! Remember - this short article was really about what most guys think about when FIRST asked what they are looking for. Whatever happened to independence, stability (and not only financial, but emotional), kindness, laughter???I personally enjoy a pretty face first and foremost, for example ...
it is a reflection of what all early to mid-forties men want ... 1) Brazilian Wax Job I found it amazing how many of us men find a Brazilian wax job so incredibly important and sexy on a woman. ] The truth is - not all women in their forties are willing to get a Brazilian wax job ... The difference from a man's point-of-view is night and day ... 2) Financial Contributor to the Relationship Being a "financial contributor to the relationship" simply means that you earn an income, and are an economic asset (not a liability) to the male-female partnership. The truth is that we men prefer that a woman is capable of standing on her own financially ... We don't mind being the major breadwinner - but we also don't want to be funding any slackers. 4) Physical Attributes are Definitely a Bonus Not all men are pigs, but most of us are.
Definitely, I’m not giving up.” Ahh yes, a single man who is used to doing and getting what he wants, bravely refusing to give up hope that is in store. It doesn’t help that trend pieces like this one talk about “meaningful” relationships and experiences as if they are things you acquire once the keg is tapped and you’ve gotten bored of playing with all the shiny objects in the room.
It’s a tale as old as the universe itself, obviously. ’ There are a lot more challenges the older you get, and I realize that now.” Yes, I’m sure it’s very challenging to wake up one day, the hungover stench of male entitlement and vodka turning your stomach to the point where the nausea feels like loneliness, and realize that what you want is a wife and kids, and when you want it is now-so to be safe, you should probably stick to dating women under 35. It irritates me that even just really, truly about a woman poses such a threat to male freedom; that it’s seen as a burden that can’t possibly be juggled until that day arrives when they’re suddenly “mature” enough to appreciate the ways in which it benefits they’ll need to date younger too, so their seed can spread someday.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder - so ladies, please don't think you need to be some perfect-looking little hottie in order to snag a good midlife bachelor - no.
I absolutely guarantee you that no matter what you look like, there is a man out there right now that thinks you are hot (even if you are built like a buffalo or a rhinoceros ...